To my Future Significant Other

Hi. Thank you for choosing me as the one you want to spend your whole life with. Thank you for picking me. I warn you, this will be hard. You have to deal with my overly complicated personality. But I have to say, I admire you for accepting me for who I am. I bet you’ve already seen me cry over a simple tear jerking film, laugh my ass off over a stupid joke or even become sad over a dying dog. This is who I am. I am a simple girl. I laugh over small things and I do cry over simple things, too. I hope you do understand what I mean.

I have to warn you, dealing with me will be very difficult. I have so many issues in life. I tend to get jealous easily. But please, if you feel I am getting jealous over a girl or over your ex-girlfriend, please don’t make fun of me. Just hug me tight and say that they don’t matter because I am the only one you love and you will never leave me. Please bear with me if sometimes I don’t say what I really feel.  Sometimes, I want you to take the initiative to feel that there is something wrong with us. One hug could change my mood, really it’s true. So if you noticed that I am quiet (which is very not my personality) then there is something wrong and it’s time to give me a power hug.

Please get used to me crying. I know that I look strong on the outside and it seems that I am just a happy-go-lucky girl, but I tend to get emotional very often. Please bear with me. I cannot control it. Also, please don’t let me stop working. I would love to work for our children and I want to help you earn money. It’s not that I think you can’t handle it but I think if I work, we can give our children a better future and we can provide for their needs and we can go out every vacation and spend family bonding in distant places. I promise that I will make it a point to cook dinner for us even though I will be very busy when it comes to work.

I hope we can still have time for each other even if we have our kids-watch movies together, have a picnic by the garden. Please try to understand that I am a hopeless romantic. I believe in fairy tales and I sometimes wish they could happen to me, to us. I want you to hold my hand in our 50^th anniversary and I want to spend my every birthday with you- I hope you want it too.

Thank you, for taking time to read this and thank you in advance for loving me wholeheartedly and entrusting me with your heart. I love you.